“Lazy Sunday” Date Day

Sunday 8-17 BL
1) Babes got up so early so I kinda did too. We got up and went for Life Alive and talked about feminism, more specifically, how stupid dumb girls pose for pictures. We sat outside on City Hall Lawn again and talked about dirty nasty birds “hey we’re eating” and other things.

2) Food shoppins at the Co-op and got a few meals worth of food. Got home and realized we have all the food and leftovers that we really need to eat up. Gonna try and not buy any other food this week. We’ll see how that goes. We talked about life priorities and what needs are the most important to us. Things are gonna change schedule-wise so I’m trying my best to prepare for it. Sucks that I totally did read about this way back and I knew deep down that this was gonna be how it is, but I didn’t realize that it was gonna happen so soon.

3) Lunch #2 for cutie and then we took a glorious nap for a few hours.

4) Tattoo time! We played tattoo parlor and drew our tatt ideas on each other. K did a real cool rainbow line on my left forearm and then ‘let it go’ on my right. I really want it in her handwriting but it’s not a great idea to do that even though her handwriting is the best and it’s so pretty. Maybe someday…I drew some ugly ass flowers on her sleeve in smelly markers and actually liked the sunflower quite a bit, but the daisies were shit. My concept rose turned out ok and my lettering was pretty good too.

5) Cooked dinner. Quinoa, potatoes, kale, garlic, and onions. So yummy! Babycakes is the best at making healthy vegan foods and it’s a good thing for me!

6) We had spa day, cucumber clay face masks and giggled at each other before separate 😦 showers.

7) Trolling the cutie for her naked girls in her ’email’ and gotta remember to ask about her secret paper and research on tattooed sexy ladies. Def gonna remember that one. Trolling K is pretty easy, she just digs that hole deeper and deeper… Yummy sexytime and sleep. I had a rough sleep and crazy dreams tho.

Lazy Sunday Date Day

Sunday 8-10 BL
1) Grasshopper in Allston was pretty yummy but not as good as the My Thai place in Chinatown. Dumplings were fantastic and the sauce was almost as good as real nuoc mam.

2) Walkabout lap around the reservoir in Brighton. Hot sun and lots of teasing. Dunno why she likes weak complainy me. Pictures of my lumpy legs and I whined the rest of the way around. Nice to get out walking though!

edit note: I was gonna put in a pic of mosquito bites, but my Google search was a little crazy / don’t do it. So “this space left blank intentionally”

3) Groceries misadventure in Trader Joe’s and then Whole Foods. Car wash adventure and then we went home before a trip to Orange Leaf froyo yummies.

4) Home for 10 Things I Hate About You and leftovers dinner. I love the movie and Heath Ledger is a dreamboat it’s so sad he passed so young. Julia Stiles I love and she’s kinda dropped outta the scene. Baby JGL and Gabrielle Union.

5) Little bit of roomie and Peachie time tonight before yeasty popcorns and some sexytimes.

Neverending Date #3 – Boston In A Day

Friday 7-25 BL
1) Graduation for K and M was so great! Speakers were amazing in very different ways, the impact and power we have as youth professionals. Refreshing and energizing. Saw so many of my friends and people who I served with years ago. K commented that I know everyone, but it just looks like it because this is the community and network I’ve been a part of for the last few years. It was so nice to spend time with M at lunch too.

2) We went on a Boston harbor walkabout. Weather was perfect and spending time with K was fantastic! We sat down and cuddled, got creeped on by plenty of dudes and talked about my foot in mouth disease aka me saying stupid shit without thinking and hurting others inadvertently. She’s so patient and unjudgemental it is craziness. We talked through a lots of things like jealousy, friendship, and boundaries. I hope I don’t end up in the doghouse again anytime soon!

3) Flour tea break with very hot jasmine teas and chatting about travels, houses, kids, etc.

4) Walked over to Chinatown for another snack with unfriendly bao lady. Then we walked over to the Commons for another nice sit and chat about our family histories, puppies, and white boys busking.

We took a pic under those weepy trees!

5) Starbucks potty break at 5ish and guilt juice before we tried taking selfie pics of ourselves. We settled again in the Gardens for a good two and a half hours and talked about all the things. Poked fun at rich people, uber religious people, talked about our power coupleness, made up stories about people on dates, saw all types of queer lady couples and puppies.

6) Walked along the Charles River as the sun set and it was so beautiful!! More chatting and lovely time. Our walk across Mass. Ave bridge was good and we started planning out dinner.

7) I introduced cutie to the Harvest Co-op in Central Square and she flipped out! She was so happy and giddy by the vegan ice cream and frozen vegan pizzas, I shoulda taken a pic..We got groceries and finally headed home.

8) Cooked dinner: veggie sausage, pasta, broccoli, and sauce. So yumm and I timed the broccoli perfectly, it was delish!

9) Watched Imagine Me and You and made out furiously like we do 😛

Hot, Humid, and Humiliating

Monday 7-14

1) Rocked my to-do list at work! Even after a traumatic bug infested-morning (yick fattie cockroach and bitty house centipede), I managed to get a whole lot of things done including status check emails, set up my calendar for the next few weeks, and getting info releases to help my evaluation project along. As long as we can get some results, this is the most cooperative and collaborative effort I’ve had yet around my data analysis of our programs and students. Yay!

2) Emotional breakdown bit during the middle of the day was interesting, but it helped me think about a few things. I’m learning more and more about myself in this relationship and I hope that cutieface and I can talk through some things later. I’m gonna try to write another piece after this blog post if I have some time. As much as I enjoy crying out in public, it helps me grow in a weird way.

3) Groceries was necessary and quick. Raining pretty heavy when I got outside, but I’m glad I got foods.

Raunchy & Hot

Wednesday 6-25 BL
1) Got up and did a full set of exercises. Which isn’t actually too much but I did it instead of FB. Good for me!

2) Grocery shopping with cutieface and we got all kinds of things for tacos and more. Made a healthy salad for lunch with far too many cucumbers.

3) Planned on going to see 22 Jump Street, because it was too hot outside to do much else, but we ended up doing other activities for four hours 😉 and definitely got all light headed and dehydrated because of it. Whoops.

Extra Gratefulness Often

Friday 6-6
1) Shower sexytime again, dang how’d I get so lucky?

2) Grocery shopping was successful and quick.

3) Internet fun time with K before we went over to S&Vs. Trans videos, WWYD, dance videos, funny internet things.

4) S & V viewing party for Orange is the New Black with lots of new and old friends. We only managed to get through a few eps. L got tipsy off grape seed spirits and was hilarious, MK was a joy as always.


Sunday 5-25
1) Groceries for veggies! Spending money on veggies is not so bad. Market Basket wasn’t too bad either.

2) Champfest. Grilling, kebabs, food prep, dranks, lip synching, so fun! Adult time, with M&S’s biz school friends. K came over looking so pretty.

3) Came home and watched Rent. Sexytimes ensued, of course, and she blew my mind (and body) but I won’t get into details 😉